Sunday, July 19, 2015

Father's Day

I wasn't sure what to do for Dad for Father's Day, knowing he was nearing the end. I wanted to do something that would be meaningful to him. Then God gave me the idea to write him a letter. I was privileged to read this letter to him 2 weeks before he died. The following are excerpts from that letter:

"Tonight I got to feed you your supper. It took a lot of effort just to chew and swallow your food. It seemed to wear you out. You didn't say much, as is common these days. 

As I look with love and affection on your beloved face, I recall days gone by. I remember when I would fall asleep during family devotions and you would carry me up to bed. Sometimes I would pretend to be asleep because I loved to be carried by you.

"Thank you for who you are. I want you to know how much you mean to me and that I love you more than words can say.

Now you are old (93) and tired. Your brain no longer works well. You no longer know my name but still there is recognition in your eyes when you look at me. Your body is slowly wearing out and we see the end coming when you will pass on to a better home, the one prepared especially for you. I believe you will have an orchard with every fruit imaginable and maybe a small wheat field. A dog will be sitting on the porch and there will be a lush, bountiful garden with peanuts and sweet potatoes. You will milk a few cows, with a few chickens scratching in the yard.

There will be no more pain or sorrow or sadness. I can almost hear your hearty laugh as Jesus comes running, gives you a big bear hug, slaps you on the back and says, 'Welcome home, brother!' And then he will lead you to the very throne of the Father and you will know a love so overwhelmingly sweet it will be hard to stand in his presence. And you will hear these words, 'Welcome home, son. I'm so glad you are here!' You will know you are loved beyond description!"




This picture was taken on Dad's last birthday, November 2, 2014.

Wednesday, July 15, 2015

The Ornery Little Boy

The day of the funeral, Leroy related this story to us at the graveside. It happened several years ago when Dad was still about but already suffering some memory loss. This was during the time when Dad loved eating desserts and had no qualms about how much he ate.


One day a friend of Mom's came to visit, bringing along a pie. Mom carefully set it on the table, giving Dad strict instructions not to touch it. Mom and Elizabeth went outside to look at the flowers. When they wanted to come back inside they discovered the doors were all locked and you can guess what Dad was doing...eating pie! It seemed they had to ring the doorbell for quite some time before they got a response. I guess Dad thought it was more important to finish his piece of pie first!

Occasionally we got glimpses of that ornery little boy that Dad must've been!