Family

I've often wished for a bigger family, especially around the holidays. Those big family gatherings sound so jolly and fun. My family from Canada doesn't usually make it for the holidays so for many years it was Dad, Mom, Ann & I. Now that Dad is gone it consists of only us three. But I have found it's not in the size but in actually connecting. We are learning how to let go of past hurts and wrong mindsets and see things from God's perspective. To go shopping with my sister and actually enjoy it...now THAT is a miracle! And most of the problem was in my silly little head!:)

Another exciting discovery I made is that I have a whole family in the Godhead. God is one, and yet three distinct persons, and it is important to connect with each one because they each have something unique to give. The Father gives us identity, protection and provision. Jesus gives us companionship and friendship. The Holy Spirit gives us comfort, nurture and teaching. If we don't personally know each one, we will be sadly lacking.

My "family" has also expanded over the years to include many that are not in the bloodline. It might be the little ones in the nursery at church or the impromptu shopping trip with a friend. The co-workers who tease me and yet treat me with honor and respect. The prayer group from church taking time to help me work through issues. The friend coming over just to chat and pray together. Sunday morning hugs and hellos.

I am RICH! I am BLESSED! Because of Him, the One who loves me more than life itself!