To Be Heard

What does it look like to be heard? One of the things I think of is to be understood. As I was reading in Psalms 139 this morning that was really highlighted to me.

"...you understand my every thought before it even enters my mind." Ps. 139:2b (TPT)

"...your understanding of me brings me wonder and strength." Ps. 139:6b (TPT)

I also thought of this verse in Isaiah:

"...He will not grow tired or weary, and His understanding no one can fathom. Isa. 40:28b (NIV)

There are many times we may feel misunderstood. Here are a few examples.

-    You get angry when someone cuts you off in traffic. What if... it's only because you're scared and it feels unsafe?

-    You get mad when you lose a game. What if... it's only because you feel disappointed in yourself, like you're not smart enough, and are "less than"?

-    You overeat. What if... it's not because you don't have self-control, but rather that you are feeling sad and lonely that no one noticed you at church that day?

-    You are extra quiet in a group. What if... it's only because you feel unsafe and fear being criticized?

When I feel misunderstood by others it often is more about not understanding myself. At times I even think that God doesn't understand me, but if you read the verses again at the beginning of this post, you will see that He does. Understanding why you do the things you do is the start to drastically changing your life! If you'd like help to bring more understanding to your heart please reach out to me at Polly Marie Consulting - pollymarie2003@gmail.com or text 620-200-1279.